What I would do if I was to lifecoach Leah.
Leah from Big Brother 7 seemed to me to be a tortured soul. Always trying to please everyone. She had had much surgery to make herself look acceptable to others who didn't even know her.
She had a big heart and personality but needed reassurance.
She was a lovely person, but didn't accept herself as that, rather she referred to not wanting to be judged by other people. She had a massive problem with other people's perception of her.
As a Life Coach & Reiki Specialist I would teach her that the compassionate, kind and successful person she is is what counts. She doesn't seem to realise that people usually judge others by their actions and interactions with them - I would work with her to help her see that.
She was a very supportive person in the BB7 house, her supportiveness is a major attribute. It would be lovely to help her look inwards and see the beautiful soul that is hidden within.
With all of us, the soul is hidden because just as the soul can feel life and beauty and love very deeply, it is also vulnerable to pain. When a child is born the soul is there offering love to all, slowly the pain a child feels, in its vulnerable state, as it is put down and moulded by the treatment it receives from others, leaves the child afraid to offer love, trust and kindness. Fear of being disappointed by the reactions of others or fear of being hurt when offering from the heart or fear of having enthusiasm and excitement stamped on leaves the child hiding it's true soul light to protect itself from further pain. Often, the most obnoxious children are just lashing out before they can be hurt...the shield that people put around their heart and soul to protect themselves becomes harder and harder. One form of defence is attack and when someone is fearful of being hurt they will not trust and prefer to attack others rather than put trust in yet another being who may well let them down.
Is the need to have surgery to fit in with the expectations of others another form of defense?
People who explore the reasons they have hidden the true beauty of their soul do so from an adult viewpoint. They are able to strengthen themselves and being to realise that those who put them down when they were young and vulnerable had their own problems. Many spiritual techniques, such as Reiki and positive support techniques such as life coaching ultimately lead to the client being able to express their true self without feeling fear. When the soul is rediscovered then the opinions of others melt into insignificance.
Leah has a beautiful soul, what she looks like gives a false impression...is it possible that the surgery she as had is another layer of the shield.
She had a big heart and personality but needed reassurance.
She was a lovely person, but didn't accept herself as that, rather she referred to not wanting to be judged by other people. She had a massive problem with other people's perception of her.
As a Life Coach & Reiki Specialist I would teach her that the compassionate, kind and successful person she is is what counts. She doesn't seem to realise that people usually judge others by their actions and interactions with them - I would work with her to help her see that.
She was a very supportive person in the BB7 house, her supportiveness is a major attribute. It would be lovely to help her look inwards and see the beautiful soul that is hidden within.
With all of us, the soul is hidden because just as the soul can feel life and beauty and love very deeply, it is also vulnerable to pain. When a child is born the soul is there offering love to all, slowly the pain a child feels, in its vulnerable state, as it is put down and moulded by the treatment it receives from others, leaves the child afraid to offer love, trust and kindness. Fear of being disappointed by the reactions of others or fear of being hurt when offering from the heart or fear of having enthusiasm and excitement stamped on leaves the child hiding it's true soul light to protect itself from further pain. Often, the most obnoxious children are just lashing out before they can be hurt...the shield that people put around their heart and soul to protect themselves becomes harder and harder. One form of defence is attack and when someone is fearful of being hurt they will not trust and prefer to attack others rather than put trust in yet another being who may well let them down.
Is the need to have surgery to fit in with the expectations of others another form of defense?
People who explore the reasons they have hidden the true beauty of their soul do so from an adult viewpoint. They are able to strengthen themselves and being to realise that those who put them down when they were young and vulnerable had their own problems. Many spiritual techniques, such as Reiki and positive support techniques such as life coaching ultimately lead to the client being able to express their true self without feeling fear. When the soul is rediscovered then the opinions of others melt into insignificance.
Leah has a beautiful soul, what she looks like gives a false impression...is it possible that the surgery she as had is another layer of the shield.
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